Instead of a swift dismissal, choosing to lean in with a question like,
"Alright, let us figure this out. 'HOW' can we make it work?" creates a pivotal shift.

That single change, moving from limitation to active listening, can transform a passing thought into a profound lesson for everyone involved.

Reflecting on such moments reveals the profound impact of a simple shift from "NO" to HOW."

Kids are so accustomed to hearing "No" or the delaying tactic of "Maybe later."
Therefore, when you invite them into a conversation with "HOW?"
you catch them off guard, in the best way!

The 'HOW' ignites their minds, validating their input and emphasizing collaboration and the importance of shared solutions.

Saying “NO” might be easy, but it often closes doors to genuine connection and lasting impact.

One of my friend and his son (let us call them Jack and James respectively), wanted to build a treehouse. Jack could have said, “No, that is too complicated” or “We don’t have the time.”

Instead, he asked:
“Alright, James. “HOW” do you think we could make this happen?”

The Results?

1. They drew up plans.
2. Researched treehouses that were safe and beginner friendly. Good use of gadgets, isn’t it?
3. Found a local workshop to guide them on materials.
4. Spent the next few weekends building, painting, and decorating together.

Now, that treehouse is not a structure exclusively. It is a monument to creativity, teamwork, and a whole lot of laughter.

The Story

1. Kids Learn to Think Big: Asking “HOW” turns ideas into actions.
2. Confidence Soars: They see their “crazy” ideas come to life.
3. Your Bond Deepens: You are no longer the parent who says “No”;
you are the partner in adventure.

Why This Matters?

So the next time your child, or anyone comes to you with an idea that feels out of reach, try this:
Pause. Smile. Say, “Okay, “HOW” can we make it happen?”

You might discover that the impossible… is not so impossible after all.

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Here is to parenting with purpose and possibility.

Mohammad Hashmi